Our journey to be together. We are a long
distance couple with all the usual problems it brings, along with a new one or two.
He is a working paramedic in the southwest
She is a paramedic student/Lab Tech in the northeast. Our story began several months ago on this very site.She was a shy girl who used the "ask me anything" with the anonomous option. She started by telling him, how attractive she found him and asking how a girl could find a good guy like himself. She typically followed him on Twitter, and they were facebook friends, and she would occasionally follow his posts here. She dared not tell him, her attraction was simply based on the blogs she read, his interaction with others, and the mere fact that he too was a paramedic student. Months went by and she still occasionally messaged him "anonomously", but he soon entered a relationship. Bummed? Of course she was, but come on now everyone loved him, she knew that, he had a great personality, and who was she kidding, she was several hours away, and by several meaning 28. She continued to chat with him, he was still unaware who was sending him anomous messages, they only talked about paramedic school and even that was rare. She had only told her best friend, that it was her asking the questions, that he then would post an answer to on Twitter. As a few months went by it became evident that he was happy in the relationship he was in although she noted some rocky times, so without hesitation she decided that she would come clean to him. What would she have to lose? She wouldnt have to face a harsh rejection, he was in a relationship, in fact engaged so she wouldnt have to settle for the same old saga of hearing "Oh I'm flattered, but your just not my type" or any of the other nice guy verbage. In fact, it really didnt go that way at all. As little time passed his current relationship became more evident that it "just wasn't working out" She really tried to take the high road with him, and offer just her friendship and advice, no catty game, but its still in debate as to how well that played out. The more she watched such a nice guy suffer, the more urge she had to talk to him, and tell others about her crush. However as much as she talked to him, and they became close she was presistant that any decisions that were going to be made had to come from him, not her feelings for him or anyone elses. As days went on, he ended his engagement and they continued to become closer. So as they say from that point the rest is history.....And so begins our love story....
